Dalawang stick ng yosi
Tuwing alas tres ng umaga;
Tig-isa bawat baga
Habang iniisip kita.
Kaya kung sasaktan mo lang rin ako,
Sana niyaya mo nalang akong makipagsuntukan.
Hindi 'yung mamahalin mo pa ako,
You thought I couldn’t do this without you, but guess what, I sleep great at night now.
I don’t hurt because you’re not here. I just had to learn to accept it and move on, and I did.
But you, you’re the one who keeps crawling back.
So next time you think “Oh hey, she’s happy, got to mess that up, ”
it’s not going to happen, because this time, you’re not going to get what you want.
This time, I’m going to get what I want and what I want, is not you.
Alam ko yung nararamdaman mo ngayon, alam ko kung gaano kahirap ang mag-isa. Oo andyan yung pamilya mo, mga kaibigan mo, ang D’yos na kailanman hindi ka iniwan at pinaramdam na mag-isa ka lang. Pero bilang isang normal na taong kumakain ng bigas naghahanap rin tayo ng isang taong magmamahal at mag aaruga sa atin. Yung special na taong matatawag nating sa atin.
Alam ko yung nararamdaman mo ngayon, nalulungkot ka tuwing nakakakita ka ng masasayang couple sa daan, sa park, sa klase, sa trabaho, sa jeep, sa bus, sa lrt, sa lahat. ‘Yung parang sinasadya ng panahon na ipaalala sa’yong mag-isa ka lang. Na walang nagmamahal sa’yo kung hindi yung sarili mo lang.
Alam ko yung nararamdaman mo ngayon, iniwan ka, sinaktan ka, nabigo ka sa dating akala mo s’ya na pero hindi pala. Wrong sent lang pala si God dahil hindi yun yung taong magmamahal sa’yo habang buhay. Akala mo lang pala.
Alam ko yung nararamadaman mo ngayon, ang sakit kapag nakikita mo ulit ang taong minahal mo na may mahal na ngayong iba. Hindi mo maiwasang masaktan kapag nakikita mong masaya silang magkasama. Dating ikaw ngayon iba na. Uulitin ko ulit, na wrong sent lang si God sayo dati, Hindi talaga s’ya yung para sayo.
Alam ko yung nararamdaman mo ngayon, walang I miss you/ I love you bago matulog at pagkagising mo sa umaga. Walang kain na o wag magpapagutom na text sa tanghali at gabi. Walang monthsary o anniversary. Walang chocolates o flowers. Walang hugs at kisses. Wala lahat.
Alam ko yung nararamadaman mo ngayon, puro selfie na lang at pagkain ang laman ng instagram mo. Alam kong pinangarap mo ring magtravel kasama ang mahal mo pero dahil single ka, pamilya mo na lang lagi ang kasama mo. Sa halip #relationshipgoals naging #familygoals.
Alam ko yung nararamdaman mo ngayon, Hindi mo maiwasang tanungin yung sarili mo kung bakit? Kung anong kulang sayo, kung anong problema sa katawan at mukha mo. Kung anong pangit sa ugali mo at kung bakit walang nag mamahal sa’yo.
Alam ko yung nararamdama mo ngayon, dahil nararamdaman ko din ito ngayon. Siguro nga hindi pa ito yung oras na makikilala nanatin yung taong matatawag nating sa atin, yung taong maiiharap na’tin sa altar balang araw. Pero sayo na umaasang may magmamahal na ulit o may magmamahal na, ‘wag kang susukong maghintay dahil baka ‘yung nakalaan sayo habang buhay, ngayon ay pinapanganak pa lang. Alam ko masaya maging single pero hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon, hindi sa lahat ng oras dahil kailangan rin natin ng taong makakasama natin habang buhay, yung taong ipagtatanggol ka, yung taong magaalaga sa’yo pag may sakit ka, yung taong kasabay mo mangarap para sa inyong dalawa, yung taong araw-araw magpapaalala sayo na mahal ka, na mahalaga ka.
Hashtag AudreyCooks ♥
Step 1. Ihanda ang mga sangkap at rekadong gagamitin. Alangan namang manok na minassacre lang di ba? Ihanda ang bawang, sibuyas, toyo, suka, brown sugar, at paminta. Masarap daw kapag may kasamang pagmamahal. Eh di try mong maghanap sa palengke ng sinasabi mong pagmamahal. Pakyawin mo para masarap na masarap.
Step 2. Simulan sa paggigisa ng bawang at sibuyas gaya ng pang’gigisang ginawa mo sa ex-jowa mo nung nambabae siya at nalaman mong pinag palit ka sa babaeng isang dangkal lang yung dede kumpara sa’yo.
Step 3. Kapag medyo nagbbrown na ang bawang, ilagay ang chinop-chop na manok. Isuot ang shield at full-faced armor dahil maaari kang mapilantikan ng mantika. #BakaMasaktanKaNaNaman. Hindi ka pa rin ba nadadala?
Step 4. Lagyan ng toyo. Kung wala, magmadaling tawagin ang ex jowa mong makitid ang pang-unawa. May toyo din utak nun. Balatan mo ng buhay tapos patuyuin mo sa likod ng ref.
Step 5. Pakuluan ang manok hanggang lumambot. Kung alam lang sana ito ni Popoy, hindi sana naging ganung katigas si Basha. Tusuk-tuskin para malaman. Mahirap ng mag-assume, alam mo yan.
Step 6. Lagyan ng paminta. Kung wala, dakpin si Piolo. Itaktak ang braso nito. Kung hindi pa siya sapat, mamili sa mga sumusunod kung sino ang mas effective na sangkap (a) Enchong Dee (b) Chicsers (c) Eric Santos.
Step 7. Haluin ng mabuti at tikman. Kapag medyo maalat, lagyan ito ng konting suka. Tapos kapag umasim naman, lagyan ulit ito ng toyo. Tapos kapag umalat na naman, lagyan mo ulit ng suka. Lagay lang ng lagay. Makukuha mo din yung lasang gusto mo. try lang ng try. #ParangPagibig
Step 8. Lagyan ito ng konting konting asukal para maranasan mo naman yung konting sweetness na nung simula mo lang ata naramdaman sa piling ng ex-jowa mong nagpapakasweet na sa bago nya.
Step 9. Kapag hindi mo pa rin feel yung lasa, bahala ka na sa buhay mo maarte ka. Andami mong reklamo please. Yung iba nga walang makain eh. Ang mahalaga may chicken adobo ka. Hindi naman nila malalaman yung lasa kapag naiinstagram mo na.
Til our next cooking Sesh!
Don’t try to figure out what you can do to mend it. If you’re meant to be with each other, he or she will come back into your life in a huge way and make it known that they want things to be different. That said, don’t be hopeful that this will happen, because if it doesn’t, the last thing you want to be is devastated — again.
The ending of my last relationship was awful. I think it hurt as bad as it did because this wasn’t some random young guy, but because it was a young girl (yep! a girl lols.) who had just walked into my life. This was someone whom I’d been aquatinted with through ups and downs.
It was so bad that it’d made me hate the sunshine. It’s up there gleaming, looking down on you, being all sunny despite the fact that you feel like a slice of hell. The suffering is relentless. The sky is ugly.
I once read that the pain of the death of a loved one, the pain of the end of a relationship, and the pain of a child losing a teddy bear are no different. Pain is pain.
And to the one who experiences pain, it can be all consuming and can seem like the end of the world.
I don’t like it when some people think that just because your relationship only lasted a couple of months you should hurt less than if the relationship had been longer. Again, pain is pain. No one has the right to judge it, put limits on it, or qualify it.
Sometimes, it’s hard to imagine that you’ll ever feel better. So, what do you do? You can hate it if you want, resent it, resist it, or wish it wasn’t happening.
I do know that when all of the flirting, smiling, hand-holding, and special times on the couch are over, somehow you have to find a way to put the pieces of yourself back together.
That breakup was one of the most painful times of my life. I guess pain is more if we are dumped compared to the pain experienced when we dump someone. For many of us, the pain of breakup is very intense.
Now, How to make it less painful? Here’s some advice from someone who’s on the same shoes.
Avoid that douchebag COMPLETELY : The first result of a breakup is intense pain. If you are suffering a breakup, don’t avoid the pain, but to realize that the pain is good for you. It is natural to feel pain when you lose someone who had a lot of importance in your life. When you feel pain, it is almost like a sign saying that you are on the process of healing. There is no need to panic in such a situation. The best advice to overcome the pain would be to give in to it and let it have a positive impact in your life. The pain post breakup can be a source of inspiration for you to do something better, that you have always wanted yourself to do.
Be a busy bee: The best way to avoid post breakup blues and thoughts about your ex is to keep yourself busy all the time. The mind will not think if you do not give it time to wander. Keep yourself constantly involved in different types of activities. Pick up those activities that you love doing. This will remove your focus from the breakup to the activities you love. Activities will not only freshen up your mind and relieve you of the pain but they will also help in causing a diversion for your mind and would keep you away from thinking or even trying to keep yourself from contacting your ex.
Chika your feelings only to a close friend/friends: It is a bad idea to talk about your breakup to each and every friend of yours as they will eventually start avoiding you, thinking that you have nothing to talk except the breakup. On the other hand it would be a wise decision to pick up one friend/friends who you think will understand your thoughts and your feelings and will listen patiently to all that is on your mind. Remember that your close friends can be your greatest support system when it comes to breakup and they would honestly give you the best advice. Use this support system to the fullest and talk to your best friend when you feel post breakup blues.
Write write and write: Writing is one of the good ideas to vent out all the hidden pain, frustration and anger that the breakup brings with it. Maintaining a journal would release lot of hidden pain from your heart and head. After you recover from the breakup, it would also be an insight as to how much you have evolved as a person. There is no substitute for writing when it comes to getting out one’s feeling as you can keep editing your writing about your hurt.
Take care of your family: Your family is one of the biggest support system that you may have in your life. They would stand by you through thick and thin and would try their best to help you cope with the post breakup pain. Keeping yourself constantly involved with your family would not just keep you busy but would also ensure that you have people to stand by you when you have those gut wrenching feelings of grief and that you give them quality time and bond with them.
Your family understands your needs more than anyone else.
Throw away ALL memories : One of the ways to try and forget your ex is by throwing away each and every of those things that you may feel is reminding you of him/her. It is a difficult thing to do but it would be a start to forget all those times the two of you spent together. If you had been given a ring during the relationship, it is always a good idea to give the ring back or throw it away like what i did, imean who the fuck needs a ring if it will only remind you of the lies,cheating and broken promises he/she did. It will only dig up the scars of the broken relationship.
Focus on your career : Try and make your career the most important aspect in your life. There is no bigger a high than being successful in life. Efforts to build your career would keep you busy for something that you will reap rewards in the future. It would also show everyone that you are not a coward as you did not cower down after a sour relationship. Many people hide themselves under the sheets and lose out on their life and eventually lose out on their respect too. However, the ones who emerge successful after a broken relationship are the ones who are respected the most.
Lastly, Give yourself time.This is the most important phase (believe me) : It is essential to give yourself enough time. You must realize that nobody recovers from the grief of a breakup in a jiffy. It takes days and months before seeing any signs of recovery. It all depends on the type of person you are and how you can handle negativity in your life. Do not try to go in another relationship right after a breakup. It is important to think clearly and give yourself enough time before getting back into the dating scene after a breakup.
And just bare in mind, Someone will treat you exactly how you deserve to be treated. And when you meet that person, you’ll ask yourself, What the hell was I thinking with the last guy/sibs???!
To realize what we used to have, We don’t have it anymore. (CLICK THE LINK)
Minsan kailangan mo talagang magsorry hindi dahil alam mong ikaw ang nagkamali kundi para hindi na lang humaba ang usapan. Wala eh. Meron talagang mga taong pinaglihi sa sama ng loob kaya dapat ikaw na lang yung magsorry para ang ending ikaw pa rin ang… wait for it…DAKILA.
So for future references, narito ang iba’t-ibang paraan of saying ‘sorry’ na hindi naaapakan ang dalisay mong pride.
At para sakin, atleast nagsorry ako. Yun naman ang mahalaga di ba?
If I could explain love in one word, it would have to be trust.
Trust that he doesn’t cheat on you, trust that he doesn’t lie to you, trust that he really likes you, trust that he will always be there for you, trust that he can go to a party and not get high or drunk, trust that you don’t have to worry about him breaking up with you the second you wake up, trust that he will stick up for you, trust that he will never fall in love with another, trust that he won’t just get sick of you, and trust that he wants you like you want him.